Friday, September 28, 2007

Old School Thurdays/ Your Cheating Heart!

Ok so Blogger ate my first post…I’m a Diva…I ranted…Now I’m over it!

Good thing it did…cause now I revised the playlist and it’s even better than before!

So sit back…press play…and remember all the times you cheated…or the times that you were cheated on! And if you have a little time…read my commentary on each song…it’s partially a response to Miss Ladybug…She asked about my top 10 dating mistakes…well this is 30! …..I hope I put in a couple that you haven’t heard…because….

I …

Am …


Don’t forget it! LOL

1. Somebody's Sleeping In My Bed (Remix) - Dru HillIf there ever was…I never caught it! Negroes would have been on the news “ There was apparently a double shooting…a short black woman is in custody…full story at 11!”

Y2. Somebody Elses Guy - Jocelyn Brown- Yeah…I messed around with somebody else’s guy…didn’t we all? Even if we didn't know it?

3. Another Man - Barbara MasonNow I can say this did happen to me…I dated someone at 15…and at 18…Mommy and I was watching the news…after Arthur Ashe’s death…and I saw dude…Mommy said “didn’t you date him?” I said “yeah”…She said “He’s gay”…I said “I see!”

4. Who' Making Love - Johnnie Taylor- You never know what someone is doing…while you out doing it too!

5. Candy Licker - Marvin Sease - This was the first time I ever heard of “Jody”…I’m glad I married one LMAO!

Let me lick you up

Let me lick you down

Turn around baby

Let me lick you all around!

And he’s mine…if anybody comes near him…refer back to song #1

6.Clean Up Woman - Betty Wright- There are a lot of clean-up women out there…I have runa across more than my share!

7.Call Me – SkyyI don’t think I was ever this bold…but then again…

8.Part Time Lover - Stevie WonderYeah I had one once…and it was worth it!

9.Usher -You Make Me WannaWhy do men fall into this trap?

10.Girlfriend - Alicia KeysDon’t believe his ass! The Angry Dwarf and the Hebrew ran this line on me….In the Hebrew’s case…she's now the mother of 5 of his kids!

11.Creep (So So Def Remix) – TLCI had this on my answering machine…while I was dating DJ the DJ…until a chick called and said “Oh you creeping? Well he is too!”…I wasn’t mad…but I erased it…..

12.Mr. Man - Alicia Keys (duet w Jimmy Cozier)I can’t say how many times this happened to me in a club….but I remember when it happened with JOE…that I should have done it (another AD reference…I can’t help it LOL!)

13.Same Girl Remix - R. Kelly feat. Usher & T-PainYes I was the same girl…and I don’t regret it!

14.Emotional (remix) - Carl Thomas/Faith EvansI was busted by the Indian hugged up in Bentley’s…You'll have to read it in the book…But let me tell you it was funny as hell!

15.Please Dont Go Remix - TGT (Tyrese Ginuwine Tank)- Negroes always trying to beg u back!

16.Down Low Remix - R Kelly – This song used to play every time my cheating partner would come over…too creepy!

17.Contagious - Isley Brothers & R KellyI’ve never been busted per se…

18.Friend of Mine - Kelly Price ft. R Kelly & Ron IsleyAnd I never busted anyone with my Best Friend…but if I did? Refer back to #1

19.All I Want Is You - Kelly Price Feat K-Ci & Gerald Levert - Now this did happen…and I told them both…and kept them both…then got rid of them both! Punk Asses!

20.Drama-Misery - Blackstreet ft Mary J BligeI love this song!

21.Your Secret Love - Luther VandrossAgain…another favorite cheating song…When I willingly submitted to cheating…I used to play this a lot!

22.Shes got papers on me - Richard Dimples FieldThe funniest old school song ever!...When she busts him in the shower…singing about the next chick? I crack up!

23.Secret Lovers - Atlantic StarI was 14 when this was out…and I had a crush on someone in high school…He loved ugly chicks…but I wished he loved me LOL

24.Just Be A Man About It - Toni BraxtonI wish more men would!

25.I'm Not Gonna Cry - Mary J BligeBut I did cry…for about 3 months!

26.If Loving You Is Wrong - Al GreenAl Green is the man! Even with third degree burns from grits!

27.Woman To Woman - Barbara MasonI played this role quite often…If my man was cheating with you? Sweetie…you getting a phone call….and quite possibly a beat down!

28. Confessions Part II – Usher – I forced the Ranting Runt to do this to his girl…he had to confess…I had too much evidence!

29. You Oughta Know - Alanis MorrisetteBut I ended up singing this song!

30. Cowboys and Angels - George MichaelNow this is a song to the one who broke my heart the best….I should have learned from the lyrics:

You can call it love
But I don’t think it’s true
You’re not to blame
It always ends the same

Please be stronger than your past
The future
May still give you
A chance

And it does…those who want to cheat…they will always find a way to….I’m glad to say that I am a reformed cheater. It won’t happen again (never ever…never ever?) Yes never again. I have finally found the man who deserves my faithfulness. Scribe….the most wonderful man I have ever met. Thank you God…for finally giving me the rest I needed in him.

Which was your favorite cheating song?


Thursday, September 27, 2007


My blog sister Ladybug made a request in my comments last week. She slightly complained that although she liked the 80's...she wanted to hear something from the 90's. Since most of my partying was done during the 90's...I was all to happy to oblige her!!!!!!!

In honor of your return to the blogworld and because you were brave enough to believe in me...that I would actually complete it!

This List is also special to me because it reminds me of the club Bentley's. Bentley's was the longest running nightclub in NY before the Shadow Nightclub. They are/were both owned by the same guy. The lines for Bentley's used to be around the corner...down from 40th St and Madison...all the way down to 42nd ST! Not that I know anything about standing on that line....when I was 18...I dated the DJ...DJ the DJ...Darryl DJ Mentor. Man was he cool....He was 10 years older than me...but never made me feel my age....My of us used to get in for free....He would say how many you bringing? 5,8, never mattered to Darryl...DJ Diva was getting in...and all my friends were cute LOL! He taught me so much about music...switching songs...keeping the party going....More on him later I guess...but thanks Darryl...what you taught me...never left me!

Now onto the Music!


90's Girl (Encore Extended Club Mix) - Blackgirl

Treat 'Em Right - Chubb Rock

OPP - Naughty By Nature

Ruffneck - MC Lyte

Lookin' At The Front Door - Main Source

Rumpshaker - Wreckx n Effect

Flava In Ya Ear - Craig Mack

Can't You See - Total

You Don't Have To Worry (What's The 411 Remix) - Mary J. Blige

Aint No Nigga - Jay Z and Foxy Brown

You're the One For Me - SWV

Return of the Mack - Mark Morrison

You Called And Told Me - Jeff Redd

I Wanna Sex You Up - Color Me Badd

Finally - Cece Peniston

Janet Jackson - That's The Way Love Goes - Janet Jackson


Over Thirty Thursday/ Old School R & B vol.1

I am having so much fun digging through my crates!

As Scribe said in his comment on the last post….there is a wealth of music floating around the house….stuff that I put together while I was active in the DJ life…Old School, Rap, Slow Jams, Spanish Music, Reggae…you name it …I played it!

But for today…we have:

OVER THIRTY THURSDAY/ Old School R&B Vol 1 !!!!!!!!!
(click the title for the music)

Music for those who were born in the 70’s…

For me…the 80’s was the beginning of my DJ career…My mom and dad were clubheads…who used to do the hustle in the living room to practice their routines before they hit the disco….My mother began to ask that I put the needle on the records. Then when she realized my talent for it…she would tell me to keep the party going! While her and my godmother drank a half pint of Bacardi…I would keep playing her 33s and 45s…until they finally were hyped up enough to hit the discos…As a result…my memory for the hottest songs of the 80’s is quite extensive…

Disco…that will be next thursday LOL

I wanted to share the track listing…and why these songs stuck with me so long….

1. Aint No Stopping Us Now- Now this of course is a classic. I don’t need to say much do I?

2. Keep On- This song always reminded me of struggle and perseverance. One of my dad’s favorites…I love the break that comes around minute 6…REACH…REACH…You’re almost THERE! Don’t you…let nobody…keep you…from reaching the top!

3. I Hear Music In The Streets - Man…watch my mom and godmom work their big asses around the livingroom to this song was straight comedy! Classic Line: “When I hear the music, I can’t help but get down“…and I still can’t…..

4. Over Like A Fat Rat - Come on man…who doesn’t know this song?

5. One Night Love Affair- Whoa…I mean like whoa…This song came out in the 80’s…but it was such a testament to my life in the 90’s….What woman doesn’t identify with this song? Classic line:

“I’m a fairytale princess in search of a knight,
and I never believed dreams come true
I’m just like you”
6. Victim: my personal all time favorite song. Period. I identify with song soooooooo much. How many times have you been a VICTIM? I know I have been….too many times to count! Candi Stanton really put our feelings into words…the idea of meeting a man…thinking it will be great…only to realize that he has moved on to the next bitch….chick I mean LOL

Classic Line:

“Already, I’m being left at home

I wonder what it is

that makes a man leave a girl so all alone

Another woman is usually the thing

Running round just don’t seem to change

I’m a Victim!”

WORD Candi!!

7. Watching You- My uncle Al used to love this song….he would change the lyrics and it always ended up that nobody was watching anybody LOL

8. Let It Whip- My mother would put this on before she would beat us…Nuff said!

9. Circles- I remember spinning around and around in the livingroom with my father…I am still a great hustle dancer thanks to him! LOL

10. Give It To Me Baby- My dad would come home from his club hopping, tore up from the floor up, and throw this on at 4 am. Used to wake up everybody in the house! But he used to get what he wanted LOL…Now this reminds me of my husband …he’s always begging for it! LMAO

11. Just Be Good To Me- This song didn’t have an impact on me until later in life…when I was trying to rationalize being with a player…It didn’t work obviously….but while I was a Hebrew…and in a polygamous relationship….it provided me some solace….

12. There’ll Never Be- Why come I didn’t know that was El Debarge until I was grown?

13. Gotta Get You Home- eh…I just liked this one LOL

I hope you enjoyed my first Over Thirty Thursday…Stay tuned for more…


DJ Diva


My Hot List for 9/2007

So I finally figured out how to share my gift of music selection with the blog world once again.

I think you guys liked my stuff…I’m almost sure you did…That’s what some of yall told me LOL

So here is my newest compilation….LMAO

Featuring the newest song by Alicia Keys…”No One”…It’s hot!

And a few others songs I’m really diggin…

DJ DIVA August Blaze 7

Come on and bounce with me….

and now that I’m back up and running….requests will be completed (wink wink S23. LEE!)

You can tell I’m Happy in ATL…I got my mojo back..LOL

I’m thinking of having blogger get together in Oct…Holla if you wanna come through…Strictly brown bagging it LOL…But I’ll feed ya.

Now back to the music…which song are you diggin on the list?


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